A job interview is a high-stress experience. You have a limited amount of time. You need and want to make a dazzling impression. You are likely to be outside your comfort zone. And the stakes are high. Yet everyone tells you to “relax,” to “be yourself.” Yikes. Would it help you to relax and be yourself if you had an idea of how you were coming across? If so, here’s some good news: It is possible to judge the impression you’re making as you’re making it.